How misunderstand happens?
situation 1-When 2 person do not trust each other.
situation 2-When 2 person do not know each other as much as they need.
I am gonna blog about situation 2 today.
When 2 person do not know each other as much as they need.
It happens to a lot of couples and it always leads to tragedy. #WTF Human often use their own mood and thoughts to interpret what others try to say. We mix our own feeling inside and it causes argument. It is the same like when you are making a joke and people take it serious. That leads to 'world war', and everyone will be like I AM DEAD. This is why understanding each other is so important in a relationship .
When you truly understand him/her, you will get what he/she trying to tell you. There will not be a misunderstanding, therefore no argument and no break up. When 2 person understand each other, they will know what the person trying to do too. They can see how hard another person try to make the relationship work. They can see the sacrifice made by their partner.
Sometimes some people made sacrifice without saying anything. they try to cope the difference between them,difference in they topic they talk about, their lifestyle, their personalities, and more. They tolerate and compromise as much as possible, because they think these problems do not worth for them to let go someone they love. Some of them know the problem from the beginning, but they did not want to talk about it, they just try to solve it, because they want that person really badly. But some people think their partner are blind, deaf, no brain to think and no heart to feel the problem. They do not saw what their partner did and give up before them.#WTF This is not the worst thing yet, the worse is they do not appreciate it and they hate you some more. Some of them think you did nothing and shuang shuang enjoy their love only when you are trying very hard to make them love you more. Sibeh sad case that can make someone feel like want to die.#WTFWTFWTFWTF
Not everyone are thick face enough to tell other how much they did for their partner. Then all their hard work is wasted because no one saw it.#WTF T_T That is why we really need to understand our partner so much. Until what level? Until you can see what others cannot see in him/her. Until both of you do not need a thousand words to tell something. I know some people might think i am naive because that does not exist in this world, one person can never understand another person completely. I know that too, but at least, what you should know you must know.
People, take some time to think who is sacrificing for you. Appreciate them. Do not lose those who truly love you. It is not easy to find someone that would give up or change everything for you. It takes a lot of courage and love for them to do that. Sometimes love is like gambling, it is not easy to make someone bet everything they have.
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